Pan deeply enjoys bringing this process of Compassionate Communication to peoples lives by working with people one on one and by working with couples in private sessions.

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Call 802-659-0144 to arrange a session with Pan.

I like to work in segments of 1 1/2 hours, and I ask for $90.00 per session.

Combining public group tranings with private sessions is a very powerful way to make a habit of compassion.


I have received Pan's assistance several times to help me work through relationship conflicts I have had with those I am close to. On every occasion he stayed present and committed to the well being of everyone in the conversation. His well-honed skill with compassionate listening and reflection were apparent when working with us. I felt that my concerns were heard by him and, in turn, by those I was on conflict with. In our work with Pan we were able to yield results in which we all felt that our needs were met. I would gladly refer others to work with him in a like fashion, as I would work with him myself in the future if the need arises again.

Gwendolyn H. 10/18/03

When a friend and lover suggested we meet with Pan to mediate a potentially explosive encounter, one sure to end our relationship, I accepted the offer, but held little hope for anything but a bitter conclusion. With grace, and calm strength, Pan kept us in the present, made sure each of us said what we meant, and heard each other clearly. Then he gently, lovingly, guided us toward an understanding of each other’s needs. I think we all came away amazed that hope and reverence could be found in each of us when we had only seen fear and despair. I have had no better guidance through any similar situation, and I certainly wish that I had. Pan has a gift; one would be blessed to use it.

Carol E.


I knew I needed to have a conversation with my dearest friends to work through some thorny issues, but I was afraid the conversation would get ugly, because the issues were so deep and the feelings running so hot.  Pan created an amazingly calm and peaceful space that allowed us all to say everything we needed to say, be truly heard by each other, and resolve things.  I emerged feeling loved, protected, and relieved by the whole experience.  In the following few days, that feeling of peace and balance has stayed with me; I have no unresolved questions or ‘loose ends hanging’. I believe Pan has not only guided us through this crisis, but has given us tools to communicate with each other more gently and effectively in the future.  Many thanks, Pan!

Laura S.

You are such a blessing to our communication and I cherish your wisdom, insights, and translations, making us sound like emotional geniuses when we are toddling around and stumbling into things. I really believe that our guided conversations with you are the key to continuing a loving relationship and being solid parents to our child, the light of our lives. I am so grateful to you for simply being who you are and sharing your rather impressive skill set with us. Sometimes I am distracted with intellectual excitement for your depth of skill and the appropriateness of your application. Really masterful, I am hugely appreciative and grateful. This is such heavy lifting and you are such and excellent partner. Thanks You

E. Q 8/14/2013